Wednesday, November 10, 2010

~HONESTY~

"Honesty is the best policy",well said but there are many for which these are only a phrase of english. we think that by telling lies we can get out of situations,and problems very easily but in real we are actually putting our self in very tedious situations from which,getting out is almost impossible.

Telling lie many times become a habit which makes a person unbelievable,so when he is actually telling the truth he will not be believed. But there are situation where bold truth can dis-heart a person.for example one person cooked food for the first time with a lot of effort but ended up with mess,then telling lie just to appreciate his hardwork is not bad,but lie should be in its limit in this case also,as on constant lies your opinion will have no weight age .Some times it could also lead to further dis heartment for person if he gets the right feedback in front of people who are strangers.So one should sugar coat the truth insteed of telling lies

some times children tell lies to there teacher without feeling that if the teacher get to know about the lie it would lead to a negative impression on her ,and the person could feel to be cheated even if it is a small issue this breaks the trust and closes doors toward future references

children many times lie their parents about their well-being in the hostel,to reduce their tension & worry,which again fill in distrust in this true relation,one can always explain the reason of skipping meals etc. to there parents and they will surely understand.

in the end i would like to say that before telling lies we should put ourself in place of that person and think what would he feel.

As as an human we always expect others to be truthful to us but we are truthful to no one!

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